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Relationship Intelligence Coach
Hello!
Thank you for being here. I’m Charmaine, a multi-credentialed international Relationship Intelligence Coach. The essence of my work is about clarity, self-awareness, relational growth, and meaningful connection.
Every meaningful connection you experience—whether romantic, familial, or professional—begins with the one you have with yourself. When you learn to truly know, accept, and honor this foundational relationship, you create new possibilities for deeper love, resilient partnerships, and lasting fulfillment in every area of your life.
As a certified Relationship Intelligence Coach, I bring a unique, integrated approach to help you discover what becomes possible when you align with your own truth. With credentials spanning self-love, conscious coupling and uncoupling, and holistic relationship dynamics, we will move beyond surface-level fixes. Together, we will start from within, building the awareness and authenticity needed to engage with others from a place that feels honest, strong, and true.
With joy and delight,
Charmaine
Relationship Intelligence Coach
Connection + Joy + Peace + Freedom
Why Relationship to Self?
Whether you are already partnered or calling in the partner you desire, build thriving family bonds, or move through transitions with grace, your self-connection is the anchor. It drives your boundaries, your choices, your joy, and your capacity to love and be loved. Without a trusting, conscious relationship with yourself, old patterns creep in. When you return to self-awareness and acceptance, healthy, rewarding connection flows outward to every relationship you have.
What Makes This Experience Different
While many seek to "fix" external relationships, my work guides you to become deeply attuned to your own needs, values, and aspirations. From here, clarity, emotional safety, and genuine connection naturally unfold. In our sessions, you can expect a space for honest exploration, transformation, and practical growth—not just quick fixes.
Through our work together, you’ll learn to:
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Cultivate Deep Self-Awareness
Discover the foundation of all healthy relationships: true self-respect, self-worth, and emotional clarity. We will work together to move beyond surface-level understanding and connect with your authentic needs and values. This is the starting point for building a life filled with connections that truly nourish you.
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Write Your Relational Story
Your past does not have to define your future. This process helps you identify and release the outdated patterns and beliefs that hold you back in relationships. By understanding your story, you gain the power to write a new one—one built on conscious choice, empowerment, and genuine connection.
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Honor Yourself in Every Relationship
Learn to attract, deepen, and heal your connections without sacrificing your own well-being. Whether you are calling in a partner or strengthening existing bonds, you can learn to foster relationships that are reciprocal and supportive. True partnership thrives when you honor yourself first.
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Navigate Transitions with Integrity
Our work will empower you to communicate with grounded self-trust. We will align with your deepest truth, ensuring you move through every transition with confidence and peace. Relationships are met with challenges there’s really no way around it. We will explore healthy, restorative ways to move forward.
Why Should You Work with Me?
Whether you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, seeking a meaningful partnership, or hoping to feel more whole within yourself, this approach meets you where you are—inviting sustainable change from the inside out.
Ready to discover what's possible when you invest in your relationship with yourself? Let’s talk about where you want to go, and how this journey can transform the way you love and connect.
I Get It.
It was through my own personal pain that I came into this practice of love. My life felt like it was in a perpetual cycle of heartbreak and disappointments, self-inflicted and from others. But, I believed in the possibility of living my life experiencing real love, happiness, and peace if I could gain a true understanding of love. Like others, the word love seemed overused, misused, and nebulous, but I was willing to get to the bottom of it. What I saw as possible for me is now my reality and I believe that for all of us.
Are you ready to live into your greatest possibility and potential?
I Can Meet You Where You Are.
Now is the perfect time to start. There is nothing else you need to do or be. I can meet you where you are. Together, we will begin this practice of personal growth with patience. The unfolding on this journey is worth your freedom. It will take small, intentional steps, but you can get there.
Are you ready to take a stand for yourself for your hopes and dreams?
I’m on the Journey Too.
I intentionally set out on this journey over 14 years ago (actually longer than that). The intention was to have a healthy relationship with myself and the people in my life. It took sheer will to keep going because it has been messy, ugly, and beautiful. As you start this journey of personal growth, know that you are supported.
Are you ready to let the path unfold so you can be free?
I Can Offer Encouragement.
Life is very different for me now. There were many times when I wanted to give up and play it “safe.” There were many lessons I had to learn. I’ve fallen on my face many times. I’ve experienced great loss and gained so much insight. This has been the most challenging, freeing journey I could have ever decided to embark on. On this journey of personal growth, know that you are supported. I am your cheerleader.
Your future self is calling you forward. Are you willing to keep going?
A Celebration of You.
Before you know it your life will be transformed. You did it! You put in the work and look at you now. Your well-being is light. That light offers peace, happiness, joy, compassion, clarity, goodness, and…real love. You realize this is not a nice concept; it’s your new reality. Congratulations!
Look at what you have to look forward to. Are you ready? Let’s begin.
Live the Life You’ve Always Dreamed Of!
We all want to live good, fulfilling lives. There’s no shame in that. I’m inviting you to live the life you’ve always dreamed of for yourself. It will make the world a better place. It would be my pleasure to support you. I ask that you be brave, patient, forgive, offer respect, be honest, be courageous, be willing to accept, and have hope. You will get there.
This is not about being perfect. It is about being willing. Ready?
Testimonial.
“After just four sessions, I felt better, became more aware of my feelings, and learned a few techniques to use in my everyday life that really made a difference...It is a journey that I am thankful I began. It was inspiring, nurturing and empowering and it helped improve the relationship I have with myself and others. Charmaine is knowledgeable, kind and genuine, and I am grateful to her for this rewarding experience!” — Sharlene, Pennsylvania